Mother’s Day: Celebrations Around the World May Inspire How You Honor Mom at Home

In many U.S. households, the second Sunday in May begins with breakfast in bed, a floral
bouquet, homemade cards, and other tokens of affection for Mom. Mother’s Day — America’s version, at least — has been an official holiday since 1914. In different corners of the globe, honoring Mom is a rite grounded in local traditions and customs — some ancient, some surprisingly new.

“Most cultures celebrate mothers because they are traditionally the main caregiver, which comes with great responsibility,” says Mei-Ling Hopgood, author of How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm: And Other Adventures in Parenting.

Let’s take a quick trip around the world to discover how families celebrate moms in five different countries and to inspire you to consider new ideas for your mother with some “at your home” ideas.

ETHIOPIA: Sing Along!
The Antrosht festival, observed at the end of the rainy season in early fall, is dedicated to moms. After the weather clears, family members flock to their homes for a large meal and celebration. Daughters traditionally bring vegetables and cheese, while sons supply meat. Together, they prepare a meat hash and sing and perform dances that tell stories of family heroes.
At Your Home: Turn on uplifting music and share stories about all the women in your family. Go through your photo albums together, quote your ancestors and create a personal scrapbook of those special moms who came before you.

INDIA: 10-Day Festival
Hindus honor Durga, the goddess of mothers, each October during the 10-day festival known as Durga Puja. The celebration dates back to the sixteenth century and is both a religious ceremony and a family reunion. One story tells of Durga returning to her parents’ home to show off her children. Families spend weeks preparing food, gathering gifts, and decorating their homes for the festival.
At Your Home: Visit other moms you know, among friends and family, and bring home-cooked goods to share.

JAPAN: The Right Flowers Following World War II, a version of Mother’s Day grew popular as a way of comforting mothers who had lost sons to the war. Carnations are popular around the March holiday, as they symbolize the sweetness and endurance of motherhood in Japanese culture. Originally, children gave a red carnation to a living mother and displayed a white one if their mother had died. Now, white has become the traditional color.
At Your Home: Thank the moms in your community who help your family by writing notes of gratitude. Tie the notes to white carnations and leave the flowers on their doorsteps.

UNITED KINGDOM: A Church Custom
“Mothering Sunday” is the fourth Sunday of Lent. In the 1700s, the day was marked by young house servants returning home to spend time with their mothers. That custom evolved from an earlier one in which families who had moved away would return to the original church they attended. Today, the holiday remains grounded in religion, with many churches handing out daffodils for children to give to mom. Traditionally, girls also bake a fruitcake for their mothers.
At Your Home: Ask your family to celebrate you on Mother’s Day by launching a new tradition based on one from your childhood.

FRANCE: Medals For Mom
In 1920, the government of France began awarding medals to mothers of large families in gratitude for helping rebuild the population after so many lives died in World War I. After the Second World War, the government declared the last Sunday in May to be the Day of Mothers. The traditional gift is now a flower-shaped cake.
At Your Home: Expressing gratitude never goes
out of style—especially when you are demonstrating ways to express it to your children. Share your thankfulness for each family member at dinner and ask each to do the same.

Laura Amann is a freelance writer and editor in Chicago.

ONYX Magazine May/June 2024

ONYX Magazine celebrates Black achievement throughout Florida. Launched in July/August 1997, ONYX Magazine remains committed to empowering its readers by offering entertaining, inspiring and informative stories, which also include, editorials focused primarily on the interests of African-Americans. Further, it serves as a venue to promote the positive experiences of Black life while promoting seamless, diversified connections with other cultures throughout the great State of Florida.

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From the Publisher May/June 2024

Dear Family,

Welcome to this issue of ONYX Magazine. We focus these pages on business and entrepreneurship as we celebrate Small Business Month in May. As a small business, ONYX relies on our community for support—without you, we could not continue to be a beacon throughout the state. Help our continued success by purchasing a one-year subscription, then ask your friends and family to join you. Thank you in advance for playing your part in keeping our community entertained, inspired and informed.

This issue also draws us to African American Music Appreciation Month. On the cover, we remind you that Country Music is a part of our history. Since Beyoncé released her new country songs, Black people have taken another look at the music that brought us together many years ago. We pay homage to those who fought racism and discrimination in the genre, salute the first woman to appear at the Grand Old Opry, and support the efforts of the up-andcoming Black Country artists.

Another story that might pique your interest is about generations of families living under one roof. This trend is spreading, and we explore the pros and cons. Also, do you make enough money to live comfortably? A new survey defines “comfortable” and shows how much you need to make to live that way—be you single or a part of a family.

Be sure to read all the stories in these pages. We hope you will be enlightened. As always, ONYX Magazine enjoys bringing you the news that entertains, inspires and informs. Thank you for continuing to receive it for nearly 27 years.

ONYX Magazine March/April 2024

ONYX Magazine celebrates Black achievement throughout Florida. Launched in July/August 1997, ONYX Magazine remains committed to empowering its readers by offering entertaining, inspiring and informative stories, which also include, editorials focused primarily on the interests of African-Americans. Further, it serves as a venue to promote the positive experiences of Black life while promoting seamless, diversified connections with other cultures throughout the great State of Florida.

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2024 Women on the Move

Time for a Daycation?

Take A Mini Daycation

Quick trips from several Florida locations

From Pensacola Blackwater River State Forest

Escape the city and head to one of Florida’s National forests. With its neighboring areas Blackwater River State Forest has the largest population of longleaf pine trees in the world. Explore the natural landscape by foot on a hike by canoe or on horseback. Float down one of the waterways and stop for a picnic on the shimmering white sands of a sandbar.

From Tallahassee Wakulla Springs

Wakulla Springs is more a park than a city but one well worth making a special day trip from Tallahassee. Located fewer than 20 miles from Tallahassee’s city center Edward Ball Wakulla Springs State Park features one of the largest and deepest natural springs in Florida. That may be why “The Creature from the Black Lagoon” was filmed here! Take a boat tour to see local critters such as alligators turtles and birds. Of course, you won’t be able to resist dipping into the refreshingly cool springs too.

From Jacksonville Amelia Island and Fernandina Beach

Amelia Island is a golf and spa haven while Fernandina Beach to the north is a quaint historic town known for its artwork antiques and boutiques. Both are great day trips from Jacksonville. Some must-see attractions on Amelia Island are Fort Clinch State Park which served as a military post during the Civil War the Spanish-American War and World War II; Amelia Island Lighthouse which began operating in 1839 and still operates today; and American Beach which was founded in 1935 by A.L. Lewis Florida’s first African-American millionaire.

From Gainesville St. Augustine

Tour the nation’s oldest city via a guided tour bus or tram and stop at all the major points of interest including an authentic Spanish fort and the Fountain of Youth. You can also take in the sights on a scenic boat ride or helicopter tour. Just off Interstate 95 in St. Augustine is the St. Augustine Premium Outlets. Nearby golfers can get their fill at World Golf Village and the World Golf Hall of Fame.

From Daytona Beach Ormond Beach

Located just north of Daytona Beach, Ormond Beach offers a few quirky local attractions for a Florida day trip. Tour The Casements the former winter home of John D. Rockefeller that now serves as the city’s cultural center. Spend some quality time outdoors at North Peninsula State Park with more than 2 miles of sandy beaches. Visit Ormond Memorial Art Museum & Gardens for nature trails fish ponds and fountains set amid lush tropical gardens. The best part? All of the attractions are free.

From Tampa/St. Petersburg/Clearwater Charlotte Harbor

A day trip to Charlotte Harbor & the Gulf Islands can include a morning swamp buggy tour through the 90 000-acre Crescent B Ranch a working cattle ranch with Babcock Wilderness Adventures. Enjoy a waterfront seafood lunch at Laishley Crab House. Spend the rest of the day strolling the shops at Fishermen’s Village.

From Sarasota/Bradenton Anna Maria Island

Start with breakfast at Ginny and Jane E’s a local favorite featuring delicious pastries and island-themed gifts. Go on a paddle tour with Captain Scott to Robinson Preserve where you’ll take in native landscapes and miles of trails (and perhaps catch a glimpse of a bald eagle). Finish the day with a spectacular sunset followed by casual dining at Island Time Bar & Grill or semi-fine dining at Bridge Street Bistro. Use the free Island Trolley to make your way around the island. Stay at the BridgeWalk Resort across from the beach if you decide to linger another day.

From Naples Big Cypress Reservation

Explore Florida’s biggest attraction the Everglades at Billie Swamp Safari. Learn the history of the Seminole Tribe and try a swamp buggy tour an airboat ride alligator show and more. Sample frog legs or alligator tail at the Swamp Water Café. If you’re so inclined you can even stay the night in an authentic native-style chickee hut.

Shop Smarter This Year With These Tips

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Shop Smarter in the New Year With These Tips

For many people, the start of a new year is an opportunity to revamp their routine and make game-changing resolutions. That’s why industry experts are offering smart shopping tips that will have you saving time, money and hassle in 2024.

According to Christa Anz, director of Sensormatic Solutions North America Marketing, the global retail solutions portfolio of Johnson Controls, it all starts in January.

“Outside of the holiday season, there isn’t a better time to shop than the start of a new year,” says Anz. “Research shows gift cards continue to grow in popularity, so even after the gift-giving season is over, consumers are treating themselves and will be popping into stores reenergized. After the holiday rush, shoppers can rediscover the fun of browsing stores for anything they didn’t receive from their wish lists.”

As Anz also points out, shopping at the start of the year isn’t just fun, it’s also cost-effective, as retailers are likely to plan promotions to help sell excess inventory, making it a good time to stock up on essentials and other items.

To shop smarter in January and all year long, Sensormatic Solutions is offering these tips based on their insider retailer predictions and data.

Make Post-holiday Returns Strategically: Though November and December are the busiest months of the year for shopping, January has a monopoly on returns. With many shoppers still utilizing “buy online, pick up in-store” (BOPIS) options, the number of people looking to return or exchange goods may be higher than you expect. If you need to make returns or exchange items during this period, you can streamline the process by reviewing return policies before heading to the store and arriving earlier in the day to avoid long lines or delays.
Make Time: Retailers will continue to implement loss prevention and security measures to combat rising organized retail crime rates. This extends to essential items, such as toothpaste, deodorant and razors. Factor extra time into shopping trips as you may need to wait for associate assistance to retrieve these items from locked display cases.
Enjoy Peace of Mind: Preferred by many for shopping during the pandemic, options like BOPIS will continue to grow in popularity as consumers enjoy its convenience and speed. Use such options to your advantage to secure deals via apps or websites and enjoy the peace of mind that comes from knowing the items you need will be there when you arrive.
Interact with Experiential Retail: Retailers are focused on enhancing in-store experiences in 2024, and that’s great news for shoppers. You might take an in-store workshop at a tech store so you can make better use of your new device, or co-design your pair of sneakers with a brand to ensure your shoes are one-of-a-kind. Pay attention to local events and promotions at your favorite stores as brands find innovative ways to promote new products, partnerships and savings. For more shopping insights, visit sensormatic.com.

Whether shopping for fun or for the essentials, understanding the latest industry trends can help you make your 2024 consumer experiences more enjoyable and less stressful.

Is Your Hair Routine Causing You Harm?

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Is Your Hair Routine Causing You Harm?

As Black women, we are serious about our haircare routines. It is not our regular salon visits, but getting our ‘dos tight daily is also critical. But a new report says some of our routines may be causing us more harm than good. We may inhale several milligrams of cyclic volatile methyl siloxanes from our haircare products.

The study looked at routines including straightening, curling, waving, and oiling our hair and the products and appliances used. It examined their potential impact on our health as well as the environment. When we use hair products like shampoo or conditioner, the exposure to the compounds is small.

If you have been following the news, you know about the potential ban on keratin treatments designed to straighten hair and the controversy surrounding relaxers. This study also impacts those of us wearing wigs. We use flat irons and curling irons when we style them, too.

The news is not all bad. However, there are habits we can adopt to minimize exposure to the emissions:

Cut back on the use of heated tools. Get out of the habit of relying on them daily.
When you use a flat or curling iron, work with the lowest temperature possible.
If the bathroom has an extractor fan, turn it on. (According to the study, the emissions will clear in about 20 minutes.)
Switch to hairstyles that don’t require heat (even if it is occasionally).

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On Exhibit: Art of Black Miami

Art of Black Miami

ART ON THE PLAZA: CHRIS FRIDAY’S NARCISSIST

MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART, NORTH MIAMI

Now – February 18, 2024

RECURRING DAILY

All Day

As part of MOCA’s Art on the Plaza series, artist Chris Friday’s large-scale, free-standing metal figure Narcissist will be on view at MOCA’s Plaza from Wednesday, November 29 through Sunday, February 18. Appearing to be captivated by its own reflection in the waters of the Museum’s fountain, Narcissist symbolizes Black art that is concerned with itself; celebrating its own inherent beauty and essence, without exposing deeper emotions or meanings, especially when placed in a public contemporary art space.

JAMEA RICHMOND-EDWARDS: ANCIENT FUTURE

MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART, NORTH MIAMI

Now – March 17, 2024

RECURRING WEEKLY ON SUNDAY, WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY, SATURDAY

Wed: 12pm-7pm | Thurs-Sun: 10am-5pm

Delve into the world of Afro-futurism and Black mythologies through Jamea Richmond-Edwards’ multidisciplinary exhibition Ancient Future. On display from Wednesday, October 25, 2023 through Sunday, March 17, 2024, the exhibition showcases Richmond-Edwards’ vibrant paintings, film explorations, and immersive installations. Richmond-Edwards transforms artistic norms with innovative techniques such as integrating soft sculpture into her paintings, creating imagined realms that merge with history, fantasy, and cultural commentary.

SILHOUETTES: IMAGE AND WORD IN THE HARLEM RENAISSANCE

THE WOLFSONIAN–FIU

Now – April 07, 2024

RECURRING DAILY

From: 10:00 AM To 06:00 PM Friday 9:00 PM

The flourishing of literary, visual, and musical arts between the 1920s and ‘40s known as the Harlem Renaissance projected a new picture of Black life to the world. Silhouettes considers the role of art in this movement, paying special attention to collaboration between artists and writers on illustrated books—works that reached a broad audience with stories and images that challenged demeaning stereotypes and asserted African Americans’ capacity for self-determination. Silhouettes: Image and Word in the Harlem Renaissance is organized by The Wolfsonian–FIU and is curated by Christopher Norwood, founder of Hampton Art Lovers, in consultation with Shawn Christian, professor of English at Florida International University, and Wolfsonian staff.

We gratefully acknowledge Historical Design for a gift of books and photographs that inspired this exhibition, and we thank the lenders to the project: Beth Rudin DeWoody, Family of Aaron Douglas, Fisk University Galleries, the Archives at Florida Memorial University, the Norwood Collection and Hampton Art Lovers, Kenkeleba Gallery, and Norton Museum of Art.

The exhibition is sponsored by Cowles Charitable Trust and Tamara L. Harris Foundation.

GARY SIMMONS: PUBLIC ENEMY

PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI (PAMM)

Now – April 28, 2024

RECURRING WEEKLY ON SUNDAY, MONDAY, TUESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY, SATURDAY

Thurs: 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM | Fri – Mon: 11:00 AM – 6:00 PM

Explore the biggest and most comprehensive retrospective of work by renowned conceptual artist Gary Simmons at PAMM from December 5, 2023 through April 28, 2024. Composed of approximately 70 works, Gary Simmons: Public Enemy covers thirty years of the artist’s career.

Since the late 1980s, Simmons has created art works that examine race, class and gender identity as reflected in multiple aspects of American culture such as cinema, music, literature, sports and urbanism. Drawing on popular genres such as hip-hop, cult horror flicks, science fiction and vintage cartoons, he’s created an arresting body of work that includes large-scale paintings, sculptures and video, most of which will be on display at this timely exhibit.

Gary Simmons: Public Enemy is curated by René Morales, James W. Alsdorf Chief Curator, and Jadine Collingwood, Assistant Curator, with Jack Schneider, Curatorial Associate, of the Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago. The exhibition will be accompanied by a major exhibition catalogue and slate of related programming.

Black History Looks at African Americans in the Arts

African American art is infused with African, Caribbean, and the Black American lived experiences. In the fields of visual and performing arts, literature, fashion, folklore, language, film, music, architecture, culinary and other forms of cultural expression, the African American influence has been paramount. African American artists have used art to preserve history and community memory as well as for empowerment. Artistic and cultural movements such as the New Negro, Black Arts, Black Renaissance, hip-hop, and Afrofuturism, have been led by people of African descent and set the standard for popular trends around the world. In 2024, we examine the varied history and life of African American arts and artisans.

Read the entire article in the January/February issue of ONYX Magazine.

Photo: Alvin Ailey and Judith Jamison. Photo by Jack Mitchell. (©) Alvin Ailey Dance Foundation, Inc. and Smithsonian Institution